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1、本科毕业论文 浅析中美家庭教育的差异学生姓名： 学生学号： 200310206087 院 （系）： 外国语学院 年级专业： 2003级英语本科2班 指导教师： 二七年五月An Analysis of the Differences of Family Education Between China and America Huang ChunUnder the Supervision ofTan JieSchool of Foreign Languages and CulturesPanzhihua UniversityApril 2007ContentsAbstract.IKey Words

2、.I摘要.II关键词 .IIIntroduction.1I. A Brief Introduction about Two Concepts of Family Education2A. American Family Education.2B. Chinese Family Education.2II. Two Different Kinds of Ways of Family Education.3 A. Differences in the Cultivation of Childrens Independence3 1. The Cultivation of Childrens Ind

3、ependence in America.3 2. The Cultivation of Childrens Independence in China5 B. Differences in the Cultivation of Childrens Interests7 C. Differences in the Cultivation of Childrens Creativity.9 D. Differences in the Cultivation of Childrens Psychological Health9 E. Differences in the Cultivation o

4、f Childrens Fame.10 F. Differences in the Cultivation of Relationship with Parents.11III. The Different Results of the Two Kinds of Family Education.12Conclusion.14Acknowledgements.15Bibliography16AbstractChildren are the hope of a nation, and family education is the elementary education for childre

5、n. Many serious problems have appeared in our education system in recent years. Almost everyone has realized the importance of solving these problems and many people have presented a lot of valuable suggestions. There are many types of family education in the world and each of them shows distinctive

6、 features and is closely responsive to its culture. And American family education is the most famous one among them. There are great differences in the concepts of education, methods of education and results of education between American family education and Chinese family education. This paper will

7、 analyze those differences from the three aspects, and will mainly analyze of the differences on cultivating childrens independence, interests, creativity, psychological health, fame and the relationship with their parents between the two kinds of family education. The author hopes to find a satisfi

8、ed family education method through comparing the differences between American family education and Chinese family education. At the same time, the author hopes this paper can provide some helpful suggestions for family education.Key WordsFamily education; independence; interest; differences摘要儿童是一个国家

9、的希望，家庭教育是儿童教育的基础。近年来，我们的教育出了很多严重的问题。几乎每一个人都认识到了解决这些问题的重要性，并提出了很多有价值的见解。世界上有很多类型的家庭教育，并且各自都有其鲜明和独特的特点，反映了其独特的文化。而这些类型的家庭教育中，尤其以美国的家庭教育最能代表西方主流文化。中美家庭教育在育儿观、教育方式和教育结果方面都有所不同。本文将从这三方面来对比中美家庭教育，重点分析两种教育方式在培养孩子的独立性、兴趣、创造力、心理健康、名利观以及与父母关系方面的差异。通过比较中美家庭教育，作者希望能找到一种比较科学优良的家庭教育方式，进而为我们的家庭教育提供有利的帮助。关键词家庭教育；独立

10、性；兴趣；差异Introduction“Children are the expectation of their parents and the hope of a nation. Family education is not only an important component of education but also the first lesson to a child, which will be remembered forever.” (Zhao Zhongxin, P1, 1991) Family education has a direct influence on t

11、he qualities of talents. In the 21st century, international competition is becoming fiercer. And it is a competition for talents fundamentally. Thus, each country should pay more attention to family education in the education projects. The issue has been becoming a hot topic in our country, and it a

12、roused great concern of our government and all walks of society, in particular the education sector. However, many people think that schools and universities have the main responsibility for these problems which appeared in education in recent years. Schools and universities are to be blamed, but th

13、eir parents are more to be blamed. “If the love of the good, the beauty and the truth had been implanted properly in their mind in early years, if they had been trained to use their minds at the very beginning, they would not live so foolishly.” (Karl Weter. P5, 2002) In order to find a better way t

14、o educate our children, we should study other countries experiences. There are many types of family education in the world, and American family education is the most famous one. So it is necessary and significant to make a comparison of the differences of family education between America and China.

15、This paper is to comparing Chinese family education and American family education superficially, which may offer some lessons to family education.I. Two Conceptions of Family EducationA. American Family EducationIn America, parents aims are to train their children to have the ability of adapting to

16、environmental variety and the ability of living independently. Based on this concept, most American parents emphasize more to train their childrens ability of independence once they are born. They generally believe that childrens growth must rely on their own experiences, because they think that chi

17、ldren should form a self-supporting will and the capacity to live independently since their childhood. And the capacity comes from the training in the early age. The so-called training contains many aspects, such as work, temper will, patience, the spirit of hard work, etc. However, the most fundame

18、ntal training is the ability of adapting to hard conditions. Through the process of work, children will form the labor sense, learn some work skills and form a habit of labor. Besides, children can learn how to overcome difficulties, temper their willpower, develop their talents and skills, rich the

19、ir knowledge, and form a habit of hard work and thrifty by working in hard conditions. It is just in the unconsciously process that children will obtain the independent survivability and take the responsibilities for the society.B. Chinese Family EducationCompared with American, Chinese parents have

20、 a very different concept of childrens education. Some parents in China only care about whether the children have a promising future, a good job, a good life or not. Based on these expectations, the majority of parents feel that their responsibility for their children is to create as good conditions

21、 as possible they can so that the children will not worry about anything in the future.Chinese parents would like to provide everything what they can for their children in the process of childrens growth. In short, they would like to sacrifice anything if their children can live better with their he

22、lp. Therefore, in the process of childrens growth, the most important thing the parents concerning is to developing their childrens intellect, except for caring childrens daily life. In order to make their children have a good performance in study, become outstanding, or even become a famous person

23、in the future, they would not let children do anything except studying. As for the childrens independence, civic awareness and their ability adapting to the society in the future, they consider little or not at all. From these aspects we can find the obvious differences of family education between A

24、merica and China.II. Two Different Kinds of Ways of Family Education.A. Differences in Cultivation of Childrens IndependenceBecause of a fundamental difference on parental concept, there are two completely different ways on cultivating their own childrens independence. 1. The Cultivation of Children

25、s Independence in America First and foremost, Chinese family education and American family education vary in the attitude towards independence. Most American parents think that the child is an independent individual since he is born, who has his own willing and characteristic. Neither the parents no

26、r teachers have priorities to determine and restrict their childrens behaviors. The Declaration of Independence says: “All the people are born equally; they are endowed with holy rights including life, freedom and pursuit of happiness.( Huang Shaoxiang，P12, 1979) In order to let the children recogni

27、ze that they are the masters of themselves, American parents will give their children enough freedom and will not make decisions for them in most cases. American parents willing to respect and understand their childrens feelings, thus, they always think carefully about their words and choose the app

28、ropriate time to educate their children. The famous basketball star, Michael Jordan once said, “I admit that our children will inherit some good traditions, but I dont think we should make rules to teach them what they can do, because I think even if they do, they will not be happy. () His words may

29、 represent the thoughts and attitude of most American people in family education.In order to cultivate the childrens ability to enjoy independent life, American parents take the measures as follows. Firstly, they try to give them enough opportunities and conditions which allow them to be fully train

30、ed in various settings since they were born. The common way the parents used is to let the children do some self-service work according to childrens ability in different ages, because this method will develop their childrens love of working and talents. For example, “There are three children, which

31、are primary school students, in an American family. All of them have their own roles and abilities. The 12-year-old girl cured all kinds of delicious snakes according to different formulas; the 10-year-old boy helped his father to mow, water flowers and clean court; the 8-year-old little girl can we

32、ave cup mat in various colors.” (Jennifer Tin, P107, 2005) This is the result of practices from their childhood. It is not an isolated phenomenon in America. This kind of examples, such as primary and middle school students doing part-time job, are too numerous to cite. According to the America News

33、paper Stands Selling Federations convey, there are thousands of newsboys in America. The phenomenon of elder students working in society can be seen here and there, and they are supported by their parents. An American said: “Parents encourage their children to work and earn money in their free time.

34、 On the one hand, this will save some expenses, and more importantly, on the other hand, it will develop childrens self-awareness at an early age.” (Jennifer Tin, P127, 2005)Children will understand the meaning of treasure and know that treasure can only be gained through working, and then, they wil

35、l know why we should cultivate saving and other good habits.Secondly, American parents would like to see their children experience all kinds of difficulties rather than to live in an over- comfortable environment. They pay great attention to training their childrens mental ability so that the childr

36、en can face all kinds of setbacks and can survive hard circumstances. So, we can see the following example, in a cold winter morning, the American children get up to deliver newspapers while our children are still sleeping in the warm blanket. Many Chinese parents probably think that it is unaccepta

37、ble, or even think that is “cruel” to children.Thirdly, American parents have stringent requirements and regulations on childrens pocket money, although their economic conditions are better than the majority of Chinese families. The principle, how much money they should give their children as pocket

38、 money depends on childrens ages and actual demands and the income of the family. What American parents do is to cultivate childrens awareness of frugality. Moreover, they do not award their children by giving them pocket money, and they let their children understand that the purpose of study is to

39、help them to become a valuable person in the future. According to a survey, it is found that “About 54 percent young students have no pocket money in America, and there are fewer chances to get money from their parents as their ages increase. It is also found that 68 percent American students earn p

40、ocket money through doing part-time job in their spare time.”(Tin Jennifer, P51, 2005) Rockefeller was one of the richest men in the United States and the first man earned one billion dollars in the world, but his children have little pocket money according to the regulations which printed on the ti

41、tle page in his family book. “The pocket money of the 7-8years old children is 30 cents per week; that of the 11-12years old children is one dollar per week; that of the over 12 years old is three dollars per week. The most important thing is that the children were asked to record every expenditure.

42、 If the account is clear and their expenditure is used for legitimate purpose, they will receive additional 5 cents in the next week. Rockefeller said: Too much wealth will bring disaster to their generation. ” (James Dobson, P175, 2004) His words contains a profound philosophy, it is worth of think

43、ing carefully.2. The Cultivation of Childrens Independence in ChinaCompared with American parents, Chinese parents hold a very different attitude toward childrens independence. In China, most parents require their children to be obedient to them. On one hand, most of Chinese people hold the idea tha

44、t there should always be a law in a certain community. That is the reason why almost every Chinese family has its law both as an illustration and an evidence of the education of children. The law might be either formally written down on papers or announced orally. The law will be used to give instru

45、ctions to the children who have done something wrong. Apparently, this is very helpful for children, but in fact, it is unfavorable to cultivate childrens ability of living independence. Because there are so many restricts in their lives that they have no chances to learn from the daily life. On the

46、 other hand, because of the influence of traditional culture, one should respect his parents absolutely in most cases. So, many parents do not concern their kids feeling, because they think that what they do for their children is just their childrens needs. It is well known that in the later of last

47、 century, for the sake of sustainable and harmonious development, our country has carried out the one child policy as family planning, for this reason theres an increasing number of families with one child, and Chinese children, since long ago, have been considered as the apple in their parents eyes. Based o