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1、大学四级模拟142Part WritingDirections:For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write a letter of advice to your cousin about how to spend the first winter holiday in college. You should write at least 120 words following the outline given below. 1、锻炼身体和平衡饮食2. 哪个是保持健康的最佳办法3. 我的观点Part Reading Comprehens
2、ion (Skimming and Scanning) Inspiration for Your Kids A parent, or anyone else who interacts regularly with kids, knows that communicating effectively with them can be difficult. If you want children to grow up into the best possible versions of themselves, its crucial to replace damaging words in y
3、our vocabulary with alternatives that help build character. Some of the things parents say to kids seem harmless or even constructive on the surface, but, experts say, they may hurt more than help. Here are some aspects under our consideration.1. When the kid deserves praise For years, weve been tol
4、d that boosting a childs self-esteem is important to his or her success in life. But child experts are now learning that too much praise can backfire (事与愿违). Praise-aholic tykes who expect it at every turn may become teens who seek the same kind of approval from their friends when offered a joint or
5、 asked if they want to go in the backseat of the car. The implication of saying Youre the prettiest girl in class, or talking about the goals she scored but not her overall effort, is that you love her only when she looks the best, scores the highest, achieves the most. And this carries over to the
6、classroom. Social psychologist Carol Dweck, PhD, tested the effects of overpraise on 400 fifth graders while she was at Columbia University. She found that kids praised for trying hard did better on tests and were more likely to take on difficult assignments than those lauded for being smart Praisin
7、g attributes or abilities makes a false promise that success will come to you because you have that trait, and it devalues effort, so children are afraid to take on challenges, says Dweck, now at Stanford University. They figure theyd better quit while theyre ahead.2. When the kid asks more to take
8、back home Does your child really need one more video game or doll? Of course not. But by repeatedly saying money is the only reason he or she cant have something, the parent may be sending the message that money is the source of all things good in life. Couple that with the marketing blitz everywher
9、e they turn, and children will never get the meaning of excess or gratitude. You want your children to have the sense of abundance until the age of fivenot in a material way, but in the sense that what you do have brings joy, says Marcy Axness, PhD, a child development specialist and founder of quan
10、tumparenting. com. Finances are one of the few topics parents shouldnt feel a duty to discuss or explain, especially with younger kids, Axness says. If every request is met with a legal brief as to why they cant have it or go there, you will end up with a child who is going to negotiate with you. Do
11、nt be afraid to say to your little one, confidently and cheerfully, No, sorry. Case closed. If its your older, money-wise child whos asking? Sit down with tier and Work out together how she can make the purchase happenas a reward for improved grades, say, or by buying it with an allowance for doing
12、extra chores. The process of talking it through matters more than how much each contributes.3. When the kid is upset When a child comes home upset about being teased by classmates or not winning a medal at the swim meet, its only natural for parents to overlook his disappointment and offer consolati
13、on (安慰). Adults know that such setbacks are minor. But kids need to learn how to express feelings, work through them and move on, as opposed to trying to make them go away without expression, says Panaccione, an expert on children development. If children feel that they shouldnt have feelings or tha
14、t their feelings are bad, theyll start to lock them inside and fail to adopt healthy coping strategies, she says. On the other hand, kids shouldnt wallow in bad feelings. A question like Why do you think this happened? or Do you have any ideas about what you can do to make it better? may give them e
15、ncouragement they need to deal with situations on their own. Says Mel Levine, MD, a professor of pediatrics at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill: A parent gives more comfort by listening than by talking. If you simply resonate with your childs mood, then youll have a child whos always
16、willing to come to you and bare her soul.4. When the kid talks to strangers Kids today need to, and do, talk to strangers all the timeat the store checkout, on the bus, in the doctors office. This antiquated catchphrase is no substitute for a serious one-on-one about the real risks. First, parents n
17、eed a reality check: Despite the sensational stones, eases of children snatched off the sidewalk by total strangers and never seen again are extremely rare. Just 1 percent or fewer of all abductions happen that way. Meanwhile, children are frequently victimized by people they know well, including au
18、thority figures. Thats why it makes more sense to tell kids to be watchful of anyone, stranger or acquaintance, who makes them feel at all uncomfortable. Parents of kids who spend time on the Internet should warn them against giving information that would identify their whereabouts, such as their la
19、st name, address or school name, advises James Beasley, an expert on child predators for the FBI. And kids should always tell their parents about new online buddies, especially those who ask if the child is willing to keep a secret.5. When the kid doesnt want to share Youd never hand the keys to you
20、r sports car to the guy next door. But thats what youre asking your children to do when you tell them to share a toy. Young kids dont distinguish clearly between themselves and the objects they own, like their teddy bear or favorite toy train, says psychologist David Elkind, PhD, a professor at Tuft
21、s University and the author of The Hurried Child. So in effect youre asking them to give away part of themselves. In extreme cases, if a child is forced to give up prized possessions over and over, the separation becomes so painful that he may avoid forming attachments to people, Elkind says. Kids d
22、ont really begin to grasp the concept of sharing until age eight or so. Before then, its still important to begin conveying nuggets (至理名言) of selflessness. One solution is to put your childs name on the toy before you take it out of his hands, so he knows youre not forcing him to give up ownership.2
23、、 Praise, if too much can lead to an unexpected effect opposite to out intention.3、 Telling kids we appreciate their effort is better than saying they are just smart.4、 To prevent kids from asking more toys, its better to explain to them the toys are not things necessary in rife.5、 Its wise to discu
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