应用型大学英语综合教程3Unit3PPT.ppt

应用型大学英语综合教程,上海交通大学出版社,应用型大学英语系列教材,Book,2,上海交通大学出版社,Language in Use,Enhancement of Language Abilities,Unit 3,Unit Three,Table of Contents,Language Skills Development,3,上海交通大学出版社,Focus1 content,Starter,Text:The love letter,Working with words and phrases,Discussion,Practice:interpreting,Practice:translation,Practice:writing,Surfing the Internet,Highlights,Table of Contents,Part 1 Language Skills Development,4,上海交通大学出版社,focus1highlights,HighlightsS:A song:right here waitingL:True loveR:The love letterW:Paragraph unityInternet work:Interesting aspects of English wedding customs,Part 1 Language Skills Development,5,Mandarin ducks,Which word will pop out in your mind when you see the following pictures?,Rose,Chocolate,Puppy love,Wedding rings,Cupid,Wedding ceremony,Love,6,Todays Topic,Love,Love is an eternal theme of human history.But what is LOVE?But,do you think love can be simply defined by words?,According to the Webster Dictionary,LOVE is a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection(喜爱)and attachment(依恋).,Interstellar,8,Whatever love is,now we are going to be overwhelmed by love.,1.Do you know any love films?2.Do you know any love songs?3.Do you know any techniques to win someones heart?,9,Tell as many love films as possible.,Gone With the Wind(1939),Waterloo Bridge(1940),Casablanca(1942),10,Roman Holiday(1953),Ghost(1990),Pretty Woman(1990),11,Sleepless in Seattle(1993),Titanic(1997),Notting Hill(1990),12,50 First Dates(2004),Wall-E(2008),City of Angels(1998),13,Love stories with happy endings.,Love stories with tragic endings.,Mr.Darcy&Elizabeth,Love&admiration,prejudice,communication,Joe Fox&Kathleen Kelly,antipathy/dislike,E-mail,Love&admiration,Romeo&Juliet,family feud,died for love,Liang Shanbo&Zhu Yingtai,feudal family values,died for love,14,Tell as many love songs as possible.,HeroMariah Carey,Right Here WaitingRichard Marx,Only YouThe Platters,when you say nothing at allAlison Krauss,Way Back Into LoveHaley Bennett&Hugh Grant,Take me to your heartMichael Learns to Rock,15,As Long As You Love MeBackstreet Boys,My LoveWestlife,Nothings Gonna Change My Love For You,The RoseWestlife,Love StoryTaylor Swift,BabyJustin Bieber,16,How to win a girls heart?,Dont come on too strong early.Be brave.Do not ever treat her as she were merely an item.Prove that you really like her.Care for her.Make sure to be good friends with her friends.Make her feel like the most beautiful thing in the world.Make sure she feels safe with you.Feel good and bad for her.,17,10.If you can make a girl laugh,youll get further with her.Let her wear your jacket if shes cold.Dont play computer or cell phone games.Be sincere.Love who she is.Always let her know you love her.,18,How to win a boys heart?,Dont be afraid!Be spontaneous!Personality is important,show him your support and try to let him talk about his life instead of blabbering about yours.Putting effort into your looks once in a while can catch his eyes.Get into deeper conversations-depending on how close you both are.Dont be too serious.Take note of his interests.Spoil his stomach,always have some snacks ready while you hang around him.,19,上海交通大学出版社,1.Starter,focus1starter,A.Read the lyrics of a song.Listen to the music video.,20,Focus1interpreting,1.Starter,上海交通大学出版社,B.Listen to the passage and choose the best answer for each question you hear.,1.Why did the couple move out from the luxury villa?()A.Because their villa was lent to their friends.B.Because they were bankrupted.C.Because they bought a new villa.D.Because they didnt like their villa.2.Why was the wife totally depressed?()A.Because she thought her husband didnt care her at all.B.Because she was tired.C.Because she didnt want to take a bath.D.Because she didnt like the bathroom.3.Why did the husband always take bath first?()A.Because he was tired.B.Because he liked taking a cold bath.C.Because he wanted to go to bed early.D.Because he wanted to make the bathroom warmer.,A,D,B,B.Listen to the passage and choose the best answer for each question you hear.,1 Love In a cold winter,a couple had to move out from the luxury villa because of bankruptcy.The husband worked day and night to support the family but with no care of his wife.So she thought,“he doesnt love me anymore,he just cares his business.not me.”One day,she wanted to take a bath,but he stopped her at the door,“Let me take it first,OK?”“Why not let me shower first,”she asked.“I was tired,sweetie,you take it later,OK?”She was totally depressed.,To be continued,Tapescript,On a morose day,she found nothing to do and turned on his computer.A few words blurred her eyes.it was his diary:Today,I was quite sad.She asked me why I was always taking the bath first,and I said to her,I was exhausted.She was unhappy.In her mind,I treated her not as well as usual,but how can I do?I wasnt as rich as before!We moved to the small apartment,and there was only a shower in such a freezing winter.But I found that if one person took the shower first,the room could get a little warmer,so every time I rushed to the bathroom first.I was thinking that,when she took the shower,the room would get warmer,at least 1.Now I cant give her comfortable life,bring her to the luxury restaurants,buy expensive dresses for her,but at least,I can give her 1 love.,It is the fountain of the mental and physical health of individuals.,It is the best way to teach people how to love others.,It is the fundamental approach to manitain the stability of society.,It is the supply to transmission of the positive energy in society.,.,Focus In Part 1,criticaloxygennegotiabledepressiondepriveunrealisticconstantlydistractionconsequenceapproachpsychologicalwillvirtuallyguaranteemeans,intensifycorerepresentdisputeinadequacyfundamentallyadequateat risksweep one off ones feetconsist ofward off on average compromise onfocus onbe aware of,focus1text,上海交通大学出版社,Text Lead-in,Text Organization,1-2,3-9,10,7-9,6,3-5,Text Organization,上海交通大学出版社,Questions for Para 1-2：,1.What does love mean to you according to the author?,Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen.,2.Why is love probably the best antidepressant?,Because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved.,Part I:Introduction to the importance of love.,1 Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen.Its not negotiable.The more connected you are,the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally.The less connected you are,the more you are at risk.,爱的力量 1 爱对你的情绪和身体来说，跟氧气一样重要。这点无需置疑。你和别人关系越紧密，就会越健康，不仅在身体上，在情绪方面也是如此。而如果与别人越疏远，对健康的威胁就会越大。,Meaning:Just as oxygens importance to peoples life,love is as important as oxygen for your mood and body.,Translation,2 It is also true that the less love you have,the more depression you are likely to experience in your life.Love is probably the best antidepressant because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved.Most depressed people dont love themselves and they do not feel loved by others.They are also very self-focused,making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love.,Meaning:Love is the most effective medicine for depression,because one of the most common reasons of being unhappy is the feeling that no one loves him or her.,Translation,2 同样，你拥有的爱越少，就越可能经历抑郁。爱可能是最好的抗抑郁药，因为陷入抑郁最重要的原因之一就是感觉没人爱。大多数抑郁的人不爱自己，也感觉不到有人爱他们。他们还总是把注意力集中在自己身上，这大大降低了他们的吸引力，也使得那些让他们学会去爱的机会白白溜走。,critical:a.1)very important because what happens depends on it 重要的，紧要的，关键性的,These talks are critical to the future of the peace process.,这些谈判对和平进程的前景至关重要。,2)saying when sth.is wrong 批评的，爱挑剔的,Her father is a very critical man.,她的父亲是个非常挑剔的人。,Examples:,Exercises:critical,criticize,critic,criticism,She used to be a literary _.We are at a _ time in our history.That movie was _ for being vulgar.The scheme is open to _.,critical,criticism,criticized,critic,negotiable:a.an offer,price,contract,etc.that can be discussed and changed before being agreed on 可谈判的，可协商的,Examples:Terms and conditions are negotiable.,条款是可以协商的。,negotiate vi./vt.negotiation n.negotiator n.,the morethe more/the less:if a particular activity increases,another change happens as a result越越,The more I thought about it,the less I liked the idea.我越想越觉得这个主意不好。,Examples:,Make sentences with the morethe more/the less.,at risk:in a situation where you may be harmed 处境危险，受到威胁,Examples:We must stop these rumors;the firms reputation is at risk.,我们必须制止这些谣言，公司的名誉受到了威胁。,Their children are also at high risk of developing the disease.,他们的孩子患此病的风险也很高。,The Symptoms of Depression:,physical symptoms such as pains,stomach upset and cramps,a decrease in energy,suicidal thoughts or tendencies,no pleasure taken in activities that used to bring pleasure,restlessness and irritability,a sense of worthlessness or guilt,antidepressant:n.U An antidepressant is a drug which is used to treat people who are suffering from depression.抗抑郁药,Examples:Running long and hard is an ideal antidepressant.,长距离并且艰苦的跑步是理想的抗抑郁病的药。,Prefix:anti-,anti-corruption anti-social anti-virus anti-aging antibody anticlockwise,self-:prefix relating to yourself or itself,used with many nouns and adjectives 表示“自我的”,自控,self-centered,self-esteem,self-aware,self-focused,self-control,以自我为中心的,自尊,自知的，自明的,自我关注,self-care,自我保护,deprive:vt.to prevent someone from having something,especially something that they need or should have 剥夺,Examples:A lot of these children have been deprived of a normal home life.,这些孩子中有许多被剥夺了正常的家庭生活。,deprive sb.of opportunities,basic rights,luxury(不常有的乐趣).,deprive sb.of?,focus1text,上海交通大学出版社,2.The Power of Love,4.What is the pop-culture ideal of love?,The pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment,which is one reason so many of us are set up to be depressed.,3.How do people get and keep love?,You have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.,Part II:The means help you to love and be loved.,Questions for Para 3-5：,3 There is a mythology in our culture that love just happens.As a result,the depressed often sit around passively waiting for someone to love them.But love doesnt work that way.To get love and keep love,you have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.,Translation,3 在我们的文化里，人们盲目相信爱情是可遇不可求的。正因如此，那些郁闷的人总是守株待兔，被动地等着别人来爱他们。不过，爱情并不是这样。得到爱、维持爱，必须走出去、主动地学习一系列专门的方法。,Meaning:People in our culture always blindly believe that love comes out just by accident,but not resorting or hunting.,神话，错误的观点,4 Most of us get our ideas of love from popular culture.We come to believe that love is something that sweeps us off our feet.But the pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment,which is one reason so many of us are set up to be depressed.Its part of our vulnerability,like eating junk food,constantly stimulated by images of instant gratification.We think it is love when its simply distraction and infatuation.,Meaning:We get used to believe that love is something that comes into being all of a sudden,and makes people surprised and unable to hold on.,Translation,4 我们中的大多数人通过流行文化来了解爱情。我们开始相信爱情是突然到来的、让我们猝不及防、无力招架的东西。不过流行文化中的理想爱情包括了很多为了娱乐效果而特地制造出来的、不现实的情景，这也是我们陷入抑郁的一个陷阱。我们有脆弱的一面，比如大嚼垃圾食品、总是能被那些立即让人满足的画面所打动。我们认为那就是爱情了，而实际上那只不过是分心或是迷恋。,脆弱性；弱点,满足；满意，喜悦,（尤指一时的）迷恋，痴心,T,5 而这样的结果之一是，当遇到真爱，我们会沮丧和失望，因为有太多的事情和流行文化告诉我们的理想不同。有些人要求高、控制欲强，想让别人做出那些我们以为理想的恋爱中应该发生的那些事情，但他们并没有意识到，这种“理想”是一种错误。,5 One consequence is that when we hit real love,we become upset and disappointed because there are many things that do not fit the cultural ideal.Some of us get demanding and controlling,wanting someone else to do what we think our ideal of romance should be,without realizing our ideal is misplaced.,Translation,遇见,苛求的,come to believe:开始相信,Examples:More and more people in the west have come to believe in acupuncture therapy.,越来越多的西方人开始相信针灸治疗。,come to passcome to powercome to lifecome to termscome to light,实现，发生,上台，掌权,苏醒过来,达成协议,显露，为大家所周知,sweep one off ones feet:给某人深刻印象；征服，迷倒某人,Examples:His courtship swept her off her feet.,他的求爱立刻赢得了她的心。,consist of:to be formed from two or more things or people 由组成,Examples:The buffet consisted of several different Indian dishes.,自助餐由几种不同的印度菜组成。,Translation:观众主要是青少年。,The audience consisted mainly of teenagers.,distraction：n.C,U something that stops you paying attention to what you are doing使人分心的事物,Translation:我在图书馆学习，家里分心的事太多。,I study in the library as there are too many distractions at home.,distract vt.distractive adj.distractor n.,错误选择,Most of us get our ideas of love from popular culture.(Para.4),To be specific,what miedia(媒介)does the popular culture adopt to change our ideas of love?,the best sellers,TV series(especially from Korea)movies,songs,reality shows.,show of affection from the Momet of Wechat,the romance or show of affection or weddings by the celebrities,proposals on campus,Consequences?,daydreamingloss of the satisfaction and enthusiathem in lifechanging the values and getting more and more critical to your loverfailure to hit the true love,focus1text,上海交通大学出版社,Question for Para 6：of Love,5.What are the action strategies to ward off depression?,Recognize the difference between limerance and love.Know that love is a learned skill,not something that comes from hormones or emotion particularly.Learn good communication skills.,Part II:The means help you to love and be loved.,6 It is not only possible but necessary to change ones approach to love to ward off depression.Follow these action strategies to get more of what you want out of lifeto love and be loved.Recognize the difference between limerance and love.Limerance is the psychological state of deep infatuation.It feels good but rarely lasts.Limerance is that first stage of mad attraction whereby all the hormones are flowing and things feel so right.Limerance lasts,on average,six months.It can progress to love.Love mostly starts out as limerance,but limerance doesnt always evolve into love.,6 为了不再抑郁，改变我们爱人的方式不仅是可能的而且也是必须的。遵守下面这些行动原则，能让你在生活中获得更多爱和被爱。认识到沉迷和爱情的区别。沉迷是一种深度迷恋的心理状态。在这种状态下，人们感觉良好，但这种感觉很难持久。沉迷是疯狂迷恋的第一个阶段，这时候荷尔蒙被高度调动，一切都是那么美好。沉迷平均会持续六个月。它能发展成爱情。爱情往往从沉迷开始，不过沉迷却不是总会变成爱情。,Translation,Meaning:Indulgence is the first period of mad and passionate romance,during which both your body and mind are highly lifted,feeling good for all the things around.,由此，借以,limerance,=,limerance,limerance,limerance,=,the psychological state of deep infatuation,that first stage of mad attraction,on average,six months,love,What is limerance?,认识到爱是一种后天习得的能力，而不是从荷尔蒙或者情绪直接演变出来的产物。弗洛姆把它称作“意志行为”。如果你不学会爱的技巧，就会很容易感到沮丧。这不单是因为你不能和对方心灵相通，还因为你会经历很多的失败。学习良好的交流技巧。这是产生信任、加深默契的关键。越会交流，也就越少抑郁，因为你会感到自己被了解、被理解。,Know that love is a learned skill,not something that comes from hormones or emotion particularly.Erich Fromm called it“an act of will”.If you dont learn the skills of love,you virtually guarantee that you will be depressed,not only because you will not be connected enough but because you will have many failure experiences.Learn good communication skills.They are a means by whi